Leadership: How To Mentally Prepare Yourself For Public Speaking

EP 199 Episode Cover Audrie Woodhouse

Leadership: How To Mentally Prepare Yourself For Public Speaking Audrie is a speaking consultant, coach, actress, speaker and founder of her international business, Honestly Speaking. In a career spanning more than thirty years in business, media, theatre, film and television, credits include BBC TV and Radio, ITV, Channel 4 and the Royal Shakespeare Company. She …

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Sports Psychology Basics: Be Proactive If You Want to Succeed #BITESIZE

EP 191 Episode Cover Dr. Jim Afremow

Sports Psychology Basics: Be Proactive If You Want to Succeed #BITESIZE Dr. Jim Afremow is a much sought-after mental skills coach, licensed professional counselor, and the author of The Champion’s Mind: How Great Athletes Think, Train and Thrive (Rodale, 2014), The Champion’s Comeback: How Great Athletes Recover, Reflect, and Reignite (Rodale, 2016) , and The Young Champion’s Mind: How to Think, …

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Peak Performance: Considerations For A Good Night’s Sleep #BITESIZE

EP 184 Episode Cover Nick Littlehales

Peak Performance: Considerations For A Good Night’s Sleep #BITESIZE

Nick Littlehales

Nick is recognised as the world’s first and leading Elite Sport Sleep Coach, probably the world’s first Sleep Coach and regarded as a leading human recovery innovator. He has over 35 years’ experience within the sleep and sleeping product industry and over 24 years dedicated to elite sport. His unique, passionate, and proven approach, is endorsed by leading sport science professionals, managers, coaches, organisations in sport and now business, health, and education worldwide.

  • International Elite Sport Sleep Coach Since 1998
  • Founder of the Game Changing R90-T Sleep RecoveryTechnique
  • Author #1 Best Seller SLEEP published in 14 languages worldwide
  • Accomplished Media Commentator Presenter Keynote Speaker

Rest and recovery is hugely important for us all, especially highly motivated and driven people.  In this bitesized episode, I chat with Nick Littlehales, a Sleep Coach to many elite sports performers.  Nick and I discuss sleep trackers and the upside to using them.  He also talks about orthosomnia, which describes individuals who become overly concerned or obsessed with tracking their sleep, resulting in heightened anxiety towards their sleeping patterns.

Key Learning Points:

  • Orthosomnia refers to a situation where people rely heavily on sleep tracking technology and aim to achieve perfect sleep.
  • This can lead to stress and anxiety, similar to the athlete who tracks too complex or unhelpful data when they perform.
  • Maintaining a balanced approach to sleep tracking is essential.

Connect with Nick Littlehales

Website

LinkedIn

Book – Sleep: The Myth of 8 Hours, the Power of Naps…and the New Plan to Recharge Your Body and Mind

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Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

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To Listen to Football or Soccer Podcast Episodes

Ep015: Nick Grantham – Essential Elements of Rest and Recovery

Ep065: Dr Amy Izycky – Encouraging Mentally Healthy Cultures in Sport

Ep092: Dr James Hegarty – ACT in Sport, Improving Performance through Mindfulness

Ep113: Polly Brennan – The Relationship Between Mental Fitness, Mental Health and Mental Toughness

Ep138: Nick Littlehales – Why do the Mentally Tough see Sleep and Recovery as Important

Other Helpful Resources

Blog: How Mentally Healthy is Your Clubs Sporting Environment

Blog: Does Your Warm Up Influence How You Perform?

Blog: Using ACT and Mindfulness to Improve Your Sporting Performances

Blog: Why You Should Meditate To Improve Your Sport Performance?

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David Charlton

Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

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    How to Help Young People Develop a “Can Do” Attitude

    EP 177 Episode Cover Lisa Avery

    How to Help Young People Develop a “Can Do” Attitude

    Lisa Avery

    Lisa Avery is a positive psychologist, coach and speaker, who uses the science of optimal human functioning in an array of settings. Her past projects have involved the design and/ or delivery of interventions to clients in Education, Government, the NHS, charities, and the corporate world. She holds a master’s degree in Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology and strives to enlighten, enliven and empower humans to exponential levels of happiness, meaning and success.

    In episode #177 of the Demystifying Mental Toughness Podcast, Lisa Avery, a positive psychology practitioner talks to me about how to help young people flourish using a positive psychology approach.  In our conversation we focus on a measure of mental toughness, life control, which links to having a “can do” attitude towards life.  We discuss identifying and cultivating positive emotions, character strengths, and virtues that contribute towards a feel good factor and overcoming our negativity bias as well as a lot more.

    Key Learning Points:

    • Arguably, here in the UK we are behind countries like the USA and Australia in our use of positive psychology approaches when supporting young people.
    • We all have a negativity bias in our brains where we are quick to notice the bad stuff not the good.
    • In order to get to the point of being comfortable in your own skin, and valuing yourself and your personality traits, you’ve got to know who you are.
    • In schools and colleges the starting point is always to work with the staff, usually the senior leadership team.
    • Dr. Susan David speaks about the fact that if you know what your values are, every time you need to make a decision.  You should simply ask yourself, “is what I’m about to say or do going to take me closer or further away from where I want to be?”.
    • The central framework to positive psychology comes from Dr Martin Seligman’s work. He says that in order to thrive, human beings need positive emotions, a sense of engagement in their work and life, great relationships, a sense of meaning or purpose, and a sense of accomplishment.
    • Abraham Maslow states “we either step forwards into growth or step back backwards into safety.”
    • Do you focus on the strengths of your kids or their weaknesses? This questionnaire will help you. – https://www.leawaters.com/sbp-quiz

    Connect with Lisa Avery

    Website

    LinkedIn

    Connect with David Charlton

    Sign Up to The Mental Edge

    Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

    Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

    5 Relevant Podcast Episodes

    Ep134: David Charlton – Observations: 3 Things That Stop You Achieving Your Goals

    Ep106: Amy Rowlinson – Why is knowing my WHY important?

    Ep098: Jon Bartlett – Do You Know Your Why? 

    Ep075: Grant Phyphers – How to Rebuild Your Identity

    Ep021: Steve Hackney – How to Reach Your Full Potential

    5 Valuable resources that can help you build a “can do” attitude

    Blog: Make Better Decisions to Help Your Sport Performance a Values List   

    Conversations with Kids – Values

    Children and Youth Motivation for Sport Quiz for Children

    Child and Youth Motivation Quiz for Parents

    Performance Profile for Goalkeepers

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    David Charlton

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    David Charlton

    Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

    Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly.  

    E: [email protected]

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      How To Deal With Criticism So That You Don’t Take It So Personally #BITESIZE

      EP 174 Episode Cover Paul McGee

      How To Deal With Criticism So That You Don’t Take It So Personally #BITESIZE

      Paul McGee

      Professor Paul McGee is one of Europe’s leading speakers on the subject of change, resilience, wellbeing, and communication. His book SUMO became a Sunday Times best seller and his book on Self Confidence reached number one in the WHSmith’s business book chart and remained there for a further 24 weeks. He has appeared on BBC Breakfast television and is a regular contributor on BBC Radio.

      Paul’s aim is to deliver a practical, relevant message that can make an immediate impact on people’s professional and personal lives. He’s spoken for more than 1,000 organisations in over 40 countries to date, and from India to Italy and from Bangkok to Brisbane, Paul’s messages have resonated with a global audience. He has had the privilege of working with one of the world’s top management gurus the late Dr Stephen Covey and his work has been endorsed by Sir Clive Woodward, who coached England to victory in the 2003 Rugby Union World Cup. Chris Evans has described Paul’s books as “a gift to the world.” His clients include prominent blue chip organisations, public sector bodies and a leading Premiership football club.

      Prof. Paul McGee’s Books  • S.U.M.O. Your Relationships: How to Handle Not Strangle the People You Live and Work With • How to Speak So People Really Listen: The Straight–Talking Guide to Communicating with Influence and Impact •  S.U.M.O (Shut Up, Move On): The Straight-Talking Guide to Succeeding in Life •

      Criticism is everywhere today, where people often share their opinions of other people very easily despite not knowing the person, online using social media.  The criticism often goes too far, especially in a sporting context, when so much emotion is evident.  Throw in general criticism on the side of a pitch from spectators, and negative feedback from coaches and team-mates.  It really can be tough being involved in sport with no hiding place.

      You’ll find some athletes and coaches brush off criticism, others though can find it very difficult to deal with.  It can impact their well-being and relationships with other people.  Sometimes they’ll respond angrily or in an aggressive manner, in other cases they’ll be overcome with sadness and get very upset. 

      The key is to take the learning, from criticism, which isn’t easy and is the focus of this bitesize episode, with Professor Paul McGee, one of Europe’s leading speakers and a respected author.  He shares some great stories and ideas to help you.

      Feel free to tune in!

      Key Learning Points:

      • A bad game doesn’t mean that you are a bad person.
      • Recognise if you become defensive in the face of criticism.
      • Acknowledge if your inner dialogue is overly critical and learn to be kinder to yourself.
      • Perspective is vital.

      Useful Questions To Ask Yourself:

      • Would you seek advice from the person who has criticised you?
      • Does the person criticising you have your best interests at heart?
      • Will I remember this incident in 6 months’ time?
      • On a scale of 1-10 how close to death is this situation?

      Connect with Paul McGee

      LinkedIn

      The Sumo Guy Website 

      Books written by Paul McGee

      S.U.M.O. Your Relationships: How to Handle Not Strangle the People You Live and Work With

      S.U.M.O (Shut Up, Move On): The Straight-Talking Guide to Succeeding in Life

      Connect with David Charlton

      Sign Up to The Mental Edge

      Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

      Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

      Relevant Podcast Episodes

      Ep041: Paul McGee – How to Develop Interpersonal Confidence

      Ep105: Hannah Bromley – Overcoming Psychological Challenges in Professional Women’s Football

      Ep120: David Charlton – Sport Coach Development: Helping Athletes Perform Better by Adapting How You Communicate

      Ep131 David Charlton – How to Deal with Self-Criticism using Self Compassion – FINAL PART

      Ep166: Mark Bennett MBE – How To Help Athletes and Coaches Reflect On Their Performances

      Relevant Blogs

      Blog: 3 Tips to deal with bullying in sport

      Blog: Communicating with children in sport

      Blog: Why You Should Recognise The Power of Your Words

      Blog: How Coaches Can Help Athletes Deal with Mistakes

      Blog: 5 Ways To Create A Psychological Safe Sporting Environment

      Other Useful Resources

      Conversations with Kids – Dealing with Criticism

      Kristin Neff Website on Self-Compassion

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      David Charlton

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      David Charlton

      Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

      Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

      E: [email protected]

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        Working With Your Subconscious Mind To Achieve Better Results

        EP 172 Episode Cover Brandon Epstein

        Working With Your Subconscious Mind To Achieve Better Results

        Brandon Epstein

        Brandon Epstein is an entrepreneur and mental performance coach who has empowered thousands of clients throughout the world for nearly two decades with his work in the wellness and performance space. A former college football player, Brandon has cultivated a wellness community with more than one million members. He coaches professional athletes, business owners, and other elite performers in feeling and being their best every day.

        Check out Brandon’s Free 7 Day Mental Reset  https://www.theowned.industries/7dayreset

        In today’s episode we look at working with the subconscious mind to improve self-awareness, overcome self-doubt and reduce your chances of choking when performing.  My guest, Mental Performance Coach, Brandon Epstein shares his wisdom and gives you some ideas and strategies to keep moving forwards.

        Key Learning Points:

        • Our subconscious mind can be programmed to help us win or lose.
        • A lot of people are unconsciously incompetent, they lack self-awareness and don’t live in the present moment.
        • Self-awareness is crucial to be able to grow and overcome performance plateaus.
        • Start by asking yourself the question – how does my emotional experience start?
        • A lot of athletes crave the feeling of confidence when they perform – it is possible to experience this when working with the subconscious.
        • Self-hypnosis can help you reprogram patterns of behaviour that you repeat.
        • Understanding your limiting beliefs and changing them is a helpful approach.
        • By being proactive and using psychological skills training you can give yourself a better chance of thriving under pressure.

        Connect with Brandon Epstein

        Website

        Instagram

        Connect with David Charlton

        Sign Up to The Mental Edge

        Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

        Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

        Relevant Podcast Episodes

        Ep013: Karl Morris – How to stay present like a major champion

        Ep012: Alessia Bruno – The Yips, Crashes, Trauma in Sport there is hope for Athletes

        Ep 081: Stuart Wade – Mental Toughness in Combat Sports

        Ep092: Dr James Hegarty – ACT in Sport, Improving Performance through Mindfulness

        Ep156: Ruth Chiles – There is Hope: How to Overcome Focal Dystonia

        Relevant blogs

        Blog: Mental Preparation for Combat Sports

        Blog: Would You Like A Secret Weapon in Your Armoury?

        Blog: Do you try too hard on the golf course?

        Blog: Why You Should Meditate To Improve Your Sport Performance?

        Blog: My Child Can’t Find “The Zone”

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        David Charlton

        Best Wishes 

        David Charlton

        Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

        Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

        E: [email protected]

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          How To Perform Under Pressure Close To Your Best #BITESIZE

          EP 169 Episode Cover Adam Nicholls

          How To Perform Under Pressure Close To Your Best #BITESIZE

          professor adam nicholls

          Adam is a professor of psychology within the Department of Sport, Health, and Exercise Science, at the University of Hull. The main focus of his research relates to the psycho-social factors that predict doping among adolescent athletes, along with coping and emotions among athletes. His research is supported by more than £1.5 million of funding. He has published more than 85 journal articles and written five books. His latest book, Psychology in Sport Coaching: Theory and Practice has also been translated into both Arabic and Hungarian.

          One of the hallmarks of Mentally Toughness is the ability to perform well under pressure.  Whether you play golf or cricket, or enjoy gymnastics or netball.  It’s the same in your job if you have to stand up and deliver presentations at work.

          So why do many people struggle with this? Why does thriving under pressure separate the great from the good on occasions?

          Many things can prevent people to be able to perform in the manner they’d like to when the pressure is on for a host of reasons, including:

          • Performance anxiety
          • A failure to learn from past mistakes
          • Focusing on the wrong things
          • Making practice sessions too comfortable
          • Personality traits, for example your Mental Toughness
          • Off field pressures

          Today’s short bite taken from episode 94 of Demystifying Mental Toughness, touches on this topic where Professor Adam Nicholls shares with you a few ideas to be able to improve the way that you perform under pressure.  Enjoy tuning in!

          Key Learning Points:

          • Mental Toughness is about an athlete’s ability to be able to perform well under pressure, so that their performance is not adversely affected by pressure.
          • Typical signs that someone struggles with pressure are that their routines change, that they speed up or slow down or that they fail to carry out tactics and get caught up in emotion.
          • Experience is an important factor in making good decisions under pressure.
          • Simulating pressure in training and practice is another helpful approach to take.
          • Seeking to improve your self-awareness, being open-minded to learn is also essential so that you can make smarter decisions at critical times.

          Connect with Adam Nicholls

          Book: Psychology in Sports Coaches: Theory and Practice

          LinkedIn

          Email

          Connect with David Charlton

          Sign Up to The Mental Edge

          Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

          Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

          6 Relevant podcast episodes

          Ep166: Mark Bennett MBE – How To Help Athletes and Coaches Reflect On Their Performances

          Ep094: Professor Adam Nicholls – How to Develop Mentally Strong Rugby Players

          Ep093: Dan Abrahams – How to Overcome Mental Blocks in Football

          Ep091: Jarrod Leathem – How to Transfer Your Cricket Skills to Matches

          Ep089: Will Shaw – How To Transfer Your Golfing Skills To The Course 

          Ep050: Compilation – Mental Strength Does Not Guarantee Success

          5 Relevant blogs

          Blog: How To Play Well When You Aren’t Feeling Great

          Blog: 5 Coaching Tips to Develop Mentally Tough Footballers

          Blog: Mental Preparation for Combat Sports

          Blog: Does Your Warm Up Influence How You Perform?

          Blog: 3 Tips to Help You Overcome Setbacks

          4 Valuable resources

          Gibbs Reflective Cycle

          Understanding yourself better – The 4Ts.  Timing, Thoughts, Tension and Temperature

          Understand your mental toughness tendencies

          Driscoll’s Model of Reflection

          3 Great conversations to have with your kids to help them perform better under pressure

          Conversations with Kids – Fixed Mindset

          Conversations with Kids – Emotional Rollercoaster

          Conversations with Kids – Bravery

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          David Charlton

          Best Wishes 

          David Charlton

          Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

          Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

          E: [email protected]

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