How To Deal With Other People In Professional Football #BITESIZE
Peter Ramage is the Assistant Player Loans Manager for Premier League Club, Newcastle United. He is a former footballer who began his career with Newcastle United before moving up to the first team where he played alongside, Alan Shearer, Craig Bellamy and Shay Given between 2004 and 2008. He then moved to Queens Park Rangers ending a 12 year association with Newcastle United. Peter also played for Crystal Palace, Birmingham City, Barnsley Kerala Blasters in the Indian Super League, Coventry City before ending his playing career in the USA with Phoenix Rising FC. He also coached at Phoenix Rising FC and with the youngsters in Newcastle United’s Academy.
A measure of Mental Toughness is interpersonal confidence, which reflects your ability to deal confidently with challenges from other people. Those with good interpersonal confidence are likely to be better at dealing positively with these situations and with people, tending to be more assertive. They are also more comfortable in social or team settings, especially when mistakes occur or as is often the case, especially in some sports, when criticism is dished out.
Today’s short bite taken from episode 03 of Demystifying Mental Toughness, touches on this topic where current Assistant Player Loans Manager at Newcastle United Football Club, Peter Ramage tells me about some of the situations he came across as a professional footballer, he also shares with you some helpful advice from some of the lessons that he has learned in dealing with others in a football environment. Enjoy tuning in!
Key Learning Points:
- Dealing with a lack of game time as a young footballer.
- Coping with criticism from teammates, coaches and fans.
- Dealing with being dropped and pushing yourself when you’re a squad player.
- Ideas on how to approach your manager when you are seeking answers or looking to improve.
- It is vitally important to be honest with yourself and take some time to reflect on your approach and mindset.
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Relevant Podcast Episodes
Ep003: Peter Ramage – Developing a Premier League Mindset
Ep105: Hannah Bromley – Overcoming Psychological Challenges in Professional Women’s Football
Ep151: Compilation – Football Psychology: 50 Ways You Can Improve Your Performance
Ep161: Paul Phillips – How to Create a Culture of High Performance in Professional Rugby Union
Relevant Blogs
Blog: 5 Reasons Team Captains Should Work with a Sports Psychologist
Blog: 3 Tips to Deal with Bullying in Sport
Blog: Communicating with Children in Sport
Blog: Why You Should Recognise The Power of Your Words
Blog: How Coaches Can Help Athletes Deal with Mistakes
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David Charlton
Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally. David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.
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