What Is Sports Psychology and How It Can Help You

EP 157 What Is Sport Psychology and How It Can Help You

What Is Sport Psychology and How It Can Help You Today’s episode #157 of Demystifying Mental Toughness is where my colleagues at Inspiring Sporting Excellence, Olivia Scott, Aditi Gandhi, Tom Short and Alexandra Harper all share what they feel Sports Psychology is and what Sports Psychology is not.  I hope you enjoy listening to their …

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How Do You Help a Young Athlete Get Better Organised?

EP 155 Episode Cover David Charlton

How Do You Help a Young Athlete Get Better Organised?

David Charlton

By working with David Charlton, you and your organisation will be better equipped to rise to modern day challenges and better informed to thrive on and off the pitch, course or court.  Where he inspires individuals and teams to:

  • Cope with pressure and challenges more effectively
  • Maintain positive mental health
  • Compete with confidence more often
  • Manage your emotions better
  • Improve your commitments levels

David is a Mental Toughness Practitioner, as well as a Health Care and Professions Council (HCPC) Registered Sport and Exercise Psychologist.  He has successfully supported athletes, teams and organisations for over 10 years in order to ensure that they perform at their maximum more often.

He has a comprehensive knowledge around the development of Mental Toughness, a plastic personality trait, which determines or limits people to deal effectively with change, challenges and stressors. In today’s climate, during the Coronavirus pandemic this quality is becoming more and more valuable to individuals, teams and organisations. 

Avoiding procrastination and becoming better organised as a young athlete is the topic of today’s short solo episode.  In Mental Toughness term’s we’re talking about commitment and sticking to promises as well as life control and having a “can do” attitude.  These are much needed skills that many youngsters struggle with, which often means their sporting performance is harmed as well as their self-worth.  In this episode, I share 3 ideas to help parents and coaches support children to overcome these challenges.

Key Learnings

  • Ask children to write a checklist.  Perhaps starting with “3 Things To Do Before training” or “3 things you do in your pre shot routine.”  By referring to lists on a regular basis your child’s ability to strategise tasks and organise time will improve.
  • Consider a child-friendly planner.  Purchasing their own planner will help them see that you consider their time valuable, and that being organised is important.
  • Establish training and practice routines.  Help your child put to one side an extra half hour, scheduling in at an appropriate time for “extras” on a regular basis.   Encourage your child to stick to the schedule even when they don’t feel like it or if the weather is poor.

Connect with David Charlton

Sign Up to Conversations with Kids

Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

Relevant Podcast Episodes

Ep154: David Charlton – How Do I Go About Controlling The Controllables To Help My Sport Performance?

Ep145: David Charlton – How Can I Help My Children Who Suffer With Nerves Before They Compete?

Ep141: David Charlton – How to Help a Child Who Wants to Quit Sport

Ep122: Camilla Knight – Helping Your Children Get The Most From Their Sporting Experiences

Ep082: David Charlton – Supporting Children in Sport with Positive Feedback

Relevant Blogs

Blog: Helping a Critical Child When You’re a Parent

Blog: How to Help Children Overcome Fear of Failure

Blog: How to Support an Angry Young Athlete

Blog: How to Help Kids Overcome Performance Anxiety

Blog: 9 Tips for Children from Olympians

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David Charlton

Best Wishes 

David Charlton

Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

T: +44 7734 697769

E: [email protected]

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    How Do I Help My Children Deal With Strong Emotions?

    EP 149 Episode Cover David Charlton

    How Do I Help My Children Deal With Strong Emotions?

    David Charlton

    By working with David Charlton, you and your organisation will be better equipped to rise to modern day challenges and better informed to thrive on and off the pitch, course or court.  Where he inspires individuals and teams to:

    • Cope with pressure and challenges more effectively
    • Maintain positive mental health
    • Compete with confidence more often
    • Manage your emotions better
    • Improve your commitments levels

    David is a Mental Toughness Practitioner, as well as a Health Care and Professions Council (HCPC) Registered Sport and Exercise Psychologist.  He has successfully supported athletes, teams and organisations for over 10 years in order to ensure that they perform at their maximum more often.

    He has a comprehensive knowledge around the development of Mental Toughness, a plastic personality trait, which determines or limits people to deal effectively with change, challenges and stressors. In today’s climate, during the Coronavirus pandemic this quality is becoming more and more valuable to individuals, teams and organisations. 

    In this short solo episode, I answer a popular question that we get asked by sporting parents – how do I help my children deal with strong emotions?

    When playing sport, children’s lives are littered with challenges and difficulties including; being dropped from squads or teams, losing form or skills, being injured and the recovery period, selection bias, being bullied, being played out of position, and dealing with making mistakes and losing, as well as many more.   I go on to share 7 suggestions for parents that you may find helpful. 

    Key Learnings

    1. Think about what you want to say. 
    2. Find a quiet moment. 
    3. Find out what they know. 
    4. Share your feelings with your child.
    5. Tell the truth. 
    6. Say “I don’t know.”
    7. Take good care of yourself

    Connect with David Charlton

    Sign Up to Conversations with Kids

    Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

    Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

    Relevant Podcast Episodes

    Ep074: David Charlton – How Can I Make My Child Feel Confident?

    Ep112: David Charlton – How to Deal with Physical Insecurities as a Young Athlete

    Ep122: Prof Camilla Knight – Helping Your Children Get The Most From Their Sporting Experiences

    Ep145: David Charlton – How Can I Help My Children Who Suffer With Nerves Before They Compete?

    Other Relevant Blogs and Resources

    5 Tips for Parents To Help Their Children Perform with Confidence

    Helping Young Athletes Manage Emotions

    Does Your Child Worry Too Much About What Others Think?

    My Child Can’t Find “The Zone”

    Communicating with Children in Sport

    IF YOU ENJOYED TODAY'S SHOW PLEASE SHARE

    SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON YOUR FAVOURITE AUDIO PLATFORM

    Also, kindly consider taking the 60-seconds it takes to leave an honest review and rating for the podcast on iTunes, they’re extremely helpful when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of them!

    David Charlton

    Best Wishes 

    David Charlton

    Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

    Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

    T: +44 7734 697769

    E: [email protected]

    Search Our Sports Psychology Website

    Popular Categories

    Join Our Online Community Now!

    Mental Edge Newsletter

    Are you an athlete, coach or parent that would like to learn how to create sustainable high performance? Receive our free regular newsletter, where we share proven mental toughness and high performance tips and strategies. If you want some support and motivation straight to your inbox, then sign up below.

      We won't send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time.

      How Can I Help My Children Who Suffer With Nerves Before They Compete?

      EP 145 Episode Cover David Charlton

      How Can I Help My Children Who Suffer With Nerves Before They Compete?

      David Charlton

      By working with David Charlton, you and your organisation will be better equipped to rise to modern day challenges and better informed to thrive on and off the pitch, course or court.  Where he inspires individuals and teams to:

      • Cope with pressure and challenges more effectively
      • Maintain positive mental health
      • Compete with confidence more often
      • Manage your emotions better
      • Improve your commitments levels

      David is a Mental Toughness Practitioner, as well as a Health Care and Professions Council (HCPC) Registered Sport and Exercise Psychologist.  He has successfully supported athletes, teams and organisations for over 10 years in order to ensure that they perform at their maximum more often.

      He has a comprehensive knowledge around the development of Mental Toughness, a plastic personality trait, which determines or limits people to deal effectively with change, challenges and stressors. In today’s climate, during the Coronavirus pandemic this quality is becoming more and more valuable to individuals, teams and organisations. 

      In this short solo episode, I answer a question posed by a parent.  “How can I help my son, a goalkeeper who gets very grumpy and nervous the evening before a match?”  Many children across a range of sports face this challenge, often talking themselves into performing poorly before they go out to play a match or compete.  They let nervousness win.  Today’s episode is set up to help parents where I share some ideas on how you could adapt your approach so that you help your children. 

      Key Learning

      • Consider if you are providing emotional support or if you are drawn into problem solving?
      • Offer your children some space.
      • Help your children to find ways to switch off from their sport.
      • Be careful not to over-coach your children.
      • Consider if practice the day or evening before is fun and relaxing or actually fuelling anxiety and perfectionism.

      Connect with David Charlton

      Sign Up to Conversations with Kids

      Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

      Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

      Relevant Podcast Episodes

      Ep008: Brendan Pearson – Academy Football, Professional Football, Injuries and Early Retirement

      Ep074: David Charlton – How Can I Make My Child Feel Confident?

      Ep087: Carl Bell – From Professional Football and Goalkeeping to Physiotherapy

      Ep112: David Charlon – How to Deal with Physical Insecurities as a Young Athlete

      Ep122: Prof Camilla Knight – Helping Your Children Get The Most From Their Sporting Experiences

      Other Relevant Blogs and Resources

      Blog: Pre Match Tips for Parents

      Blog: 5 Reasons Why Being Released from a Football Academy is Difficult

      Blog: How To Overcome Self-Doubt When You’re A Goalkeeper

      Blog: Goalkeepers – Does your warm up have to be perfect for you to feel confident

      Blog: Do You Focus Too Much on the Opposition as a Goalkeeper

      IF YOU ENJOYED TODAY'S SHOW PLEASE SHARE

      SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON YOUR FAVOURITE AUDIO PLATFORM

      Also, kindly consider taking the 60-seconds it takes to leave an honest review and rating for the podcast on iTunes, they’re extremely helpful when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of them!

      David Charlton

      Best Wishes 

      David Charlton

      Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

      Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

      T: +44 7734 697769

      E: [email protected]

      Search Our Sports Psychology Website

      Popular Categories

      Join Our Online Community Now!

      Mental Edge Newsletter

      Are you an athlete, coach or parent that would like to learn how to create sustainable high performance? Receive our free regular newsletter, where we share proven mental toughness and high performance tips and strategies. If you want some support and motivation straight to your inbox, then sign up below.

        We won't send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time.

        How to Help a Child Who Wants to Quit Sport

        EP 141 Episode Cover David Charlton

        How to Help a Child Who Wants to Quit Sport

        David Charlton

        By working with David Charlton, you and your organisation will be better equipped to rise to modern day challenges and better informed to thrive on and off the pitch, course or court.  Where he inspires individuals and teams to:

        • Cope with pressure and challenges more effectively
        • Maintain positive mental health
        • Compete with confidence more often
        • Manage your emotions better
        • Improve your commitments levels

        David is a Mental Toughness Practitioner, as well as a Health Care and Professions Council (HCPC) Registered Sport and Exercise Psychologist.  He has successfully supported athletes, teams and organisations for over 10 years in order to ensure that they perform at their maximum more often.

        He has a comprehensive knowledge around the development of Mental Toughness, a plastic personality trait, which determines or limits people to deal effectively with change, challenges and stressors. In today’s climate, during the Coronavirus pandemic this quality is becoming more and more valuable to individuals, teams and organisations. 

        In this short solo episode, I answer a question posed by a parent.  “My son has had a tough time recently and often talks about not wanting to continue with football.”

        Sadly, this question appears to be a common one at present and shows no signs of going away potentially down to the pressures placed on children at a young age, both in their sport and education.  I do my best to give sporting parents one idea on how you can help them and open up a conversation on the topic.

        Key Learning

        • Ask your child why they play football or sport.
        • Find out what they love about sport.
        • Check-in with yourself, why would you like your children to play sport?
        • Now check if you share common ground, if there is a big difference in your motivations I’m hoping you’ll question your approach and consider how you communicate with them. 

        Connect with David Charlton

        Sign Up to Conversations with Kids

        Download THE FOCUSED ATHLETE CHECKLIST

        Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

        Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

        Relevant Podcast Episodes

        Ep067: David Charlton – Supporting Children to Transfer their Skills from Training to Competition

        Ep074: David Charlton – How Can I Make My Child Feel Confident?

        Ep082: David Charlton – Supporting Children in Sport with Positive Feedback

        Ep085: David Charlton –  David on Being Tough Vs Being Comfortable in Your Own Skin Part 4

        Ep122: Prof Camilla Knight – Helping Your Children Get The Most From Their Sporting Experiences

        Other Relevant Blogs and Resources

        Blog: A Confidence Checklist for Parents

        Blog: Pre Match Tips for Parents

        Blog: How Do You Give a Young Golfer Self-Confidence?

        Blog: 5 Reasons Why Being Released from a Football Academy is Difficult

        Children and Youth Motivation for Sport Quiz

        Child and Youth Motivation Quiz for Parents

        IF YOU ENJOYED TODAY'S SHOW PLEASE SHARE

        SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON YOUR FAVOURITE AUDIO PLATFORM

        Also, kindly consider taking the 60-seconds it takes to leave an honest review and rating for the podcast on iTunes, they’re extremely helpful when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of them!

        David Charlton

        Best Wishes 

        David Charlton

        Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

        Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly. 

        T: +44 7734 697769

        E: [email protected]

        Search Our Sports Psychology Website

        Popular Categories

        Join Our Online Community Now!

        Mental Edge Newsletter

        Are you an athlete, coach or parent that would like to learn how to create sustainable high performance? Receive our free regular newsletter, where we share proven mental toughness and high performance tips and strategies. If you want some support and motivation straight to your inbox, then sign up below.

          We won't send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time.

          Helping Your Children Get The Most From Their Sporting Experiences

          EP 122 Episode Cover Camilla Knight

          Parental Support: Helping your Children get the Most from their Sporting Experiences

          Camilla Knight

          Camilla Knight is an associate professor in sports psychology at Swansea University in Wales, United Kingdom, and she is an expert in youth sport. One of her key research interests is in understanding the role that parents play in the lives of their young athletes.

          Camilla completed her BSc and MSc at Loughborough University, and her PhD at the University of Alberta in Canada. She is also the lead of the Welsh Research Advisory and Evaluation group for the Child Protection in Sport Unit, a member of the Welsh Safeguarding in Sport Strategy group, and the Youth Sport lead for the Welsh Institute of Performance Science.

          Today’s guest, Camilla Knight is an associate professor in sports psychology at Swansea University in Wales, United Kingdom, and she is an expert in youth sport.  One of her key research interests is in understanding the role that parents play in the lives of their young athletes.  In episode 122 of Demystifying Mental Toughness we discuss the role of parents in sport, the challenges and stressors that they experience.  We also chat about the parent/coach relationship with their children and give you some ideas on how to improve your communication with your children.  Coaches and teachers may also find this episode helpful.

          Key Learning Points 

          • By understanding the youth sport experience more we can support young people involved in sport better so that they enjoy it more and have a better chance of achieving their potential.
          • It’s easy to separate enjoyment and competing however many children enjoying sport because of the competitive element and want to strive to improve. 
          • It’s important for parents to recognise why their children take part in sport and reminder themselves from time to time.
          • As a parent you invest a lot of time, a lot of money and a lot of emotion, it can be a stressful experience for many parents.
          • In terms of mental health in children, it’s helpful to notice if your child’s typical behaviours go on to change.  
          • Having open and honest conversations with children is very helpful.
          • Knowing as a parent when you are out of sync and what stresses you out and how it shapes your communication with your children is beneficial.
          • The parent child relationship is a bi-directional relationship.
          • If you’re a parent and coach your children setting some boundaries is helpful for journeys.

          Connect with Professor Camilla Knight

          Email 

          Website

          Connect with David Charlton

          Download THE FOCUSED ATHLETE CHECKLIST

          Join David @ The Sports Psychology Hub

          Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn

          Relevant Resources

          Sports Psychology Resources for Youth Sport (Blogs, Podcasts, Video’s)

          Sport Psychology for Children and Parents 

          Child and Youth Motivation for Sport Quiz

          Parent Motivation for Sport Quiz

          IF YOU ENJOYED TODAY'S SHOW PLEASE SHARE

          SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON YOUR FAVOURITE AUDIO PLATFORM

          Also, kindly consider taking the 60-seconds it takes to leave an honest review and rating for the podcast on iTunes, they’re extremely helpful when it comes to the ranking of the show and we read every single one of them!

          David Charlton

          Best Wishes 

          David Charlton

          Global Sports Psychologist who is located near Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK and willing to travel Internationally.  David also uses online video conferencing software (Zoom, Facetime, WhatsApp) on a regular basis and has clients who he has supported in USA, Canada, South America, UAE, Australian and New Zealand.  

          Managing Director – Inspiring Sporting Excellence and Founder of The Sports Psychology Hub.  With over 10 years experience supporting athletes, coaches, parents and teams to achieve their goals, quickly.  

          T: +44 7734 697769

          E: [email protected]

          Search Our Sports Psychology Website

          Popular Categories

          Join Our Online Community Now!

          Mental Edge Newsletter

          Are you an athlete, coach or parent that would like to learn how to create sustainable high performance? Receive our free regular newsletter, where we share proven mental toughness and high performance tips and strategies. If you want some support and motivation straight to your inbox, then sign up below.

            We won't send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time.

            How to Master the Mental Side of Horse Riding

            EP 109 Episode Cover Maria Jeffers

            How to Master the Mental Side of Horse Riding Maria Jeffers joined AQR in 2021 as Head of Business Development to play a key role in AQR’s growth in the UK and overseas. Maria brought with her a long experience of psychometric measures and their applications gained whilst in business development roles with SHL and TalentQ. 

            45 Secrets to Sporting Success

            Demystifying Mental Toughness

            45 Secrets to Sporting Success Welcome to episode #103 of Demystifying Mental Toughness.  This is the final part of four specially created episodes to celebrate reaching our century!   The episode is hugely insightful with a number of our guests to date, again sharing many fantastic takeaways.  The messages come from the world of marathon

            David on Being Tough Vs Being Comfortable in Your Own Skin Part 4

            David Charlton

            David on Being Tough Vs Being Comfortable in Your Own Skin – Part 4 By working with David Charlton, you and your organisation will be better equipped to rise to modern day challenges and better informed to thrive on and off the pitch, course or court.  Where he inspires individuals and teams to: Cope with pressure

            Supporting Children in Sport with Positive Feedback

            David Charlton

            Supporting Children in Sport with Positive Feedback By working with David Charlton, you and your organisation will be better equipped to rise to modern day challenges and better informed to thrive on and off the pitch, course or court.  Where he inspires individuals and teams to: Cope with pressure and challenges more effectively Maintain positive mental